Getting started with bisexual dating
Make space for your own identity and the kind of connection you want.


Bisexual Sexy brings adults together to explore dating, conversation and meaningful connections with people who are open to attraction beyond one gender. Whether you identify as bisexual, bi+, pansexual or are still finding the words that suit you, your experience deserves to be heard. You can introduce yourself at your own pace and focus on the people, interests and relationship goals that matter to you.
Build a profile that shows more than a label. Share something about your personality, the activities you enjoy and the kind of connection you would like to find. Use the available search and messaging features to discover people and begin a conversation. A thoughtful introduction creates room for chemistry while leaving both people free to decide whether they would like to continue.
Bisexuality does not determine whether someone wants a monogamous relationship, an open arrangement or another kind of connection. Talk about expectations directly, especially if an existing partner is involved. Respect names, pronouns, boundaries and changes of mind. Nobody needs a particular dating history to prove their identity, and a shared orientation does not replace getting to know an individual.
The community is for adults aged 18 and over. Keep identifying information private until you feel comfortable, be cautious about requests for money or personal material and use available reporting tools when needed. For a first meeting, choose a public place and keep your own travel arrangements. Explore our guides for ideas about profiles, first messages, privacy and relationships, then decide what kind of dating experience is right for you.
Make space for your own identity and the kind of connection you want.
Approach a potential date as a person rather than a collection of assumptions.
Offer a clear introduction with interests, intentions and details that invite a reply.
Open with genuine interest and let the exchange develop at a comfortable pace.
Talk about the arrangement you want instead of relying on assumptions.
Decide what to share, with whom and at what stage of a connection.
Create a straightforward plan that leaves both people free to assess the connection.
Explore the everyday compatibility that supports the relationship you both want.